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I had an ex g/f that liked her a$$ smacked hard and every once in a while would tease about her hair being pulled but never asked for it to be done. some just liked my hand in it, some liked it tugged, some liked it pulled really hard.And since i love playing with a womans hair, i just start at point A and ever so slowly, start tugging until i can tell they want me to stop - which isnt that hard to figure out really.
Plus, if you don’t lash out with anger or blame, he’ll see that you’re in control of your emotions and that you’re not living and dying with everything he does or doesn’t do – and that will make him want you even more.
But little by little, over time, they work out their feelings and start to become more comfortable, and the distance they bounce away becomes less and less.
That’s why it’s so important to remind yourself that if he’s feeling distant – it’s totally natural.
Trying to guess the reason is impossible – some guys want space to reflect on the relationship, some (insecure) guys want space because their friends make fun of them for being “too whipped”, some guys want space because they need time alone to clear their heads and gain clarity in life.
It’s not possible to guess the reason why he’s acting a bit distant – but it is possible to give him exactly what he wants – time and space.