Dating tips for the single mom
"Surround yourself whenever possible with emotionally generous and secure people who boost your confidence," Klungness says.How to keep your head high if people are judgmental?When my daughter, Mae, was 7 months old, her father and I split up.He left the country -- without saying goodbye, I might add -- to start a new life.
But the real boon was when a mom forwarded Zola's resume to an architectural firm, which hired her for her current job. Amy Anderson, of Seattle, says that when she split with the father of her daughter, Hailey, soon after Hailey's first birthday, she had to borrow money from her family to stay afloat.
I was a hormonal, heartbroken 28-year-old, and in between work hours spent editing textbooks, I nursed Mae and mashed up baby food. It didn't help that there were no single-mom role models in my life -- except, say, Madonna, who was also parenting solo at the time.
, I used to think, but I hardly had a superstar's life.
"Sitting at home with only your child for company isn't going to help," Klungness says.
You may benefit from a new-moms group; search the Internet for ones in your neighborhood, or look for bulletins in local stores.